.Wednesday, March 23, 2005 ; 12:00 AM -
.His Mercy is New everY mornInG.
I haven't been thinking about this issue for sometimes. Is it possible?Is it not?
In my opinion, there is no yes or no answer to this question. Different people has different answers. I don't know about others. But, I do have a few really close guy friend. Our relationship now is totally platonic. They are like my brothers to me. Last time, when I was really sad and I called them, they put up with my whining and complaining. One of them were sick..sore throat some more. He tried to calm me down and called me the next morning to check whether I am ok or not. Another one came to look for me b'coz he thought I might cry. Well..Thanks all my dear friends.
Other than them, I did have a really close guy friend. Well, we no longer is because the platonic friendship turned into something more. We crossed the boundaries I guess. I was not firm enough. I let my heart controlled my head for too long.
Anyway, platonic relationship is possible for really few cases. I think it's better for guy and girl to have only platonic relationship. There will be no pressure on both sides. No commitment or obligation to treat each other in a special way. No need a reason to spend more time with each other. No need to give any explanation. They can talk about everything under the sun. It is a carefree and fun relationship. Why does a special feeling has to come along? Once the LOVE comes, things change. If it work out, then good, world peace to everyone. If it doesn't...well..no need to elaborate. We know what will happen.
The funny thing is most people want to start a relationship (as in BGR) from friends. Then, comes the dilemma.."should I treat she/he as someone special?Should I risk this friendship?"
*sigh* What a headache.
Ok. Back to consensus and conserved sequences.
