.Saturday, July 18, 2009 ; 10:56 PM -
.His Mercy is New everY mornInG.
Team Baked Potato came in 2nd!!! That is super cooL!!! Woohhooooo....
The price is quite...ahemm......attractive. Lol
Anyway, Jenn, Boss and I went to Bedok Waterfront key showflat on Friday night. How should I put it..real estate is quite interesting. No wonder many are hooked on it. It is like gambling. They call it flipping. No I am not talking about real estate agent. It is the owners and investors that are rather fascinating. My Lady boss is unlike any other lady. She doesn't fancy shopping, bargain hunting or branded boutique hopping. She shops for property and investment. A lady of age 38 owns a reputable search firm with rather substansial turn over despite current economic situation. On top of this, she owns 2 private properties, a HDB for her parents and another condo she is currently staying in. Wow.
We had quite an interesting journey from office to the location. "The Rules" was the main topic of discussion. I was "taught" how to be the lady who follow and adhere strictly to these rules. Apparently, it works. Hmm....How interesting. There are many exceptions around but do not think that we are part of that exception. We still have to play according to the rules. These are games after all.
In a nutshell:
Do not ever initiate any form of "chasing" or "giving hints" if we are interested in a particular man or men
Do not let the men know that we are dying to hear their voice/meet them/date them
NEVER initiate a date.
Be busy all the time and don't explain why the busyness
Be interesting but not interested that we are willinf to devote every single waking and sleeping hours to him.
Go out and do something coz that's the only way to meet people.
And the list goes on...........................
How interesting.
To the feminists, this book is the ultimate boo boo! Talk about equality of genders and ladies still follow a set of "rules" in dating and relationship. Why can't the ladies be in the driver's seat?
Yes you can if the men have pyschologically moved into the era of feminist. Unfortunately, we are still stuck at pride and prejudice era. Like it or not, men are turned off by over aggressive women. They simply ran away and disappeared when women decided to take the lead to "chase" them.
Now we know the problem. I wonder how to fix it.
